Wednesday, April 26, 2006
Death - Working towards and leaving behind
These two long years of grave illness could have been a time of healing for the family. I have had conversations with this friend of mine - pleading with him to encourage his mum to let go - first by himself forgiving his own dad and showing the way for his mum to find the peace. But it did not happen.
This incident made me think heavy thoughts...
It made me consider. Do I want to be on my deathbed and leave loved ones with the pain of so much baggage? Maybe in the spur of the moment or the forgetfulness of youth, we do not want to bother. But in considering what really matters in life's fleeting horizon, we need to bother much:
- What have we forgotten to say to others (in the right detail)? Are we living with our eyes forwards or backwards? What imprisons us (or others, as a result of our actions) from fully embracing the truth that sets us free? What have we put off doing that constitutes the stuff of our lifelong dreams? Do we know what the Lord's specific purpose for our lives and the difference we are put here to make?
- "God himself shall be with them, and be their God. And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain: for the former things are passed away." (Revelation 21:3-4)
For us in Christ, there is a glory beyond what we can think or imagine in passing on from this earth. Yes - there is life after death. But ask the important question: Is there life before death?
That's a sombre question to consider.
Remember to number your days carefully and live wisely.
Labels: Forgiveness, Tragedy / Death
Thank you for your sharing and pointing to other resources. I am certain that it will speak to many others in the same situation.
I hope that you will continue to embrace what the God has been speaking to you about. Take care.
~Sallibuc
I agree that most of us need prayer during times like these but you need to remember that the power to help us is not in the prayer - but in the Person and the name whom we pray to i.e. Jesus Christ.
We cannot 'invoke' God's blessing or help the way we would like to. God is not a genie whom we can rub a lamp to get Him to grant us our wishes.
God looks at our heart when we pray; even when words are less than eloquent, God sees.
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